Boss Deborah is sitting in her office reviewing monthly reports as she listens to routine bustling of her staff. Suddenly, she hears a single voice amidst the regular noise. It is Mary, her secretary, attempting to get a word in as she deals with a rather stubborn and authoritative customer. The call is placed on hold and is transferred into her office. Mary announces, “Mr. Money is on the phone; he is angry and is demanding your help.”
As Deborah reaches for her phone, she recognizes that how she handles the next few seconds will determine whether Mr. Money will raise or lower the bottom line on the next monthly report.
Have you ever experienced anything like this? In the time it takes to reach for the phone and say, “Hello,” you must have the focus and knowledge necessary to take control and lead the caller back into your corner.
Preparedness comes by having the structure in mind that will allow your persuasive and reassuring abilities to control the situation. Maybe it was your staff, your management team, or a salesman, but the buck stops with you. As you listen to the complaint, pay attention to how the caller became disgruntled, and match his or her words to the organizational structure and discipline that you have in place. Many times the caller has reached your desk because someone in the chain of command failed to listen and address their concerns. If you are the owner of this coatings contracting business, then you need to handle this call correctly — and immediately.
Between the Ring and the Answer
Let’s begin with the approach: how you manage the window between the “ring” and the “answer” will define the experience as educational, confrontational, or successful.
In the seconds before answering the call or meeting, keep in mind that the best way to initiate control is to take the high ground. Not just the high road of virtue and doing the right thing but the high ground as a vantage point to observe the situation as a whole. Prepare to remove yourself from the fray and look at the big picture. The best means of accomplishing this is to remember the following four rules.
1. Do not speak until you have truly listened.
The opposite of speaking is not listening — it is waiting to speak. Listening is a separate task, and it, in fact, is an art. If you’re waiting to speak, you are preparing to address the other person with words.
The easiest of all customers to deal with in the world of irate customers is the one that just wants to be heard. Everyone has dealt with someone who expressed every detail of his or her complaint to every person in the organization. He or she has begun to tell the story to the parking lot attendant while parking the car, and each person he or she encountered en route to the manager’s office.
The repeated rehearsal of the story should be your first indication that all this customer needs is understanding and reassurance. He or she wants someone to listen; step up and make that person you.
2. Do not defend until you have heard the attack.
Step back and allow the speaker to talk. As you listen, do not formulate your responses, but follow the speaker with an eye towards understanding the nature of his or her accusations and allegations. The ability to effectively challenge someone’s argument hinges upon your understanding of the customer’s argument — not on the merits of your own.
Taking control of a situation requires you to pay attention to what is being said so that you may take all that you’ve heard and use it collectively as you map out your proposed solution. Adopting the other person’s arguments in your solution will make it much more difficult for a person to logically rebuff your offer of resolution.
3. Identify the true nature of the complaint and the complainant.
There are many reasons why a person will complain. Dissatisfaction with a product or service is obvious, but some complaints are born and nurtured in environments outside of your control. Taking control of these types of complaints require you to listen and explore with questions regarding the circumstances that led the customer to your door.
Some people are simply disappointed with your entire industry. Lawyers and mechanics will identify with this. It is necessary to set yourself apart from the contracting herd and let the speaker know that you care.
Some complaints are born from a lack of clear expectations. Explore their concerns and guide them back to a more realistic path.
The most difficult of all complaints is the person who, due to his or her own shortcomings, has an inability to understand that the reason your service is failing is due to his or her inability to follow instructions or guidance. Does he or she know how to keep the newly coated roof clean, for example?
It is essential that you speak to these people as you would to a friend. There is no need to use industry jargon or million-dollar words. Make sure that your vocabulary and speech is simple enough that the customer can follow your directions to the letter. But do not allow yourself to come across as condescending. This can be avoided by remaining social and humane as you address your customer.
4. Focus on areas in which you and your company can improve.
Learn. Even the most irrational or self-absorbed customers can teach you valuable tools to improve your service. As you listen, store some of their thoughts and complaints into the recesses of your mind. By looking for areas of improvement in each and every conversation, you will not only actively listen but you will enjoy the opportunity to grow and become better.
Ready to Deal
Consider the following checklist as a starting point. Obviously, your industry may have specific questions or concerns that you should include. Allow these thoughts to operate as a springboard dive into your next irate customer moment.
Who did the customer speak with already?
What remedies have failed?
Is the problem real or imagined?
Is the problem related to a personality conflict with the rep the customer’s been working with?
What are the customer’s expectations?
Are the expectations something you can address?
Are the customer’s expectations reasonable?
How many people has the customer spoken with at your company?
Has everyone given the customer sound advice or bad advice?
Is the disappointment with your company and you?
Has the customer allowed their anger with the industry to fester?
Has the customer been given sound advice but the problem rests with his or her inability to understand and listen?
What can I learn from the situation to improve my bottom line?
About the Author:
Joe Curcillo, The Mindshark, is a speaker, entertainer, lawyer, and communications expert. As an Adjunct Professor at Widener University School of Law, Curcillo developed a hands-on course, based on the use of storytelling as a persuasive weapon. He has been a professional entertainer helping corporations and associations improve their communication techniques since 1979. For more information, contact: Joe Curcillo, www.themindshark.com